Monday, 11 November 2013

Juggling Leadership (continued)

In the previous blog, I was asked some questions on leadership in projects.  There were some follow-up questions and here they are, with answers:

1. You write that it's important to "continuously improve". Do you have any good tips for how to do that? After all it's a bit of a mind-set shift for many PMs right? How can they start to do it and encourage their team to always be learning and thinking? Giving the team permission to make mistakes is part of the answer; but how do we strike that balance of experimenting and ensuring it has a purpose?

I think that you have to be continuously listening, reading and learning in general.  I've met a few PM's that seem to think that just doing things is enough.  HSE (Health and Safety Executive) say that competence = learning x experience, so I like to balance the two.  I've studied best practice and then gone out to try and deliver it, thereby embedding it in the mind and experience.

Projects are great, because you can apply the learning from this one to the next.  Keep building from one to the next, but remember that you need to have an input that helps you to improve.  You have to remember though, that projects are complex systems and unlike operating a chemistry set, you can't just do things the same each time and get the same results.  Get mentoring from inside and outside the organisation.  Ask questions and really take time to listen to the answer.


2. You write that "If I'm being briefed up and the Business Case isn't obvious, then I'll ask if they'll let me test the Business Case first". How do you do that? How do you test it? What is the secret to writing a good business case?


I think you have to look at the benefits and see that they're there.  If not, why are we doing it?  That's not to say that we can't do things if there aren't obvious benefits, but where there aren't enough funds to do everything, we have to be selective and do the things that give the best bang:buck ratio.  The secret to writing a good business case is to start with the benefits of what you're trying to achieve and work back from there.  Make sure that you have a User Requirement and also make sure that you're aligned to the organisation's goals.

It's worthwhile getting a copy of "Business Analysis" and reading the section on Business Cases, because that's a great primer on writing them.  I also like to remember who I'm writing the Business Case for.  It's not for you, it's for them, so write in a way that they want to read.


3. How do PMs avoid taking on a project which is just about "delivering technology"? What tips do you have for how they can start to "look at the change holistically"?


It's not about avoiding things, it's about ensuring that you have the ability to add the cultural change aspects that you need, in order to ensure that the benefits are delivered.


Keep your eye on what delivers the benefits and then make sure that you include modules in the project that ensure those benefits will be delivered.  No good installing a new computer system if it doesn't get used!!  I have people working right now to ensure that the features in our projects are actually facilitated into use through training and closely mentoring people who will be using the systems.


4. Do you have any tips for PMs who feel overwhelmed by it all like you initially did?


Be patient, and remember that it won't happen overnight.  Get some learning, speak to people in your management and get a good mentor.  Talk through problems and ask loads of questions.  Discuss things and be honest about what you do/don't understand.  Ask for help.  Only idiots don't ask for help when they need it.


5. In which ways do you go about building trust with your stakeholders?


I think you've got to talk to them and listen to what they're saying.  If you're honest about what you're trying to achieve, you have a good User Requirement and compelling benefits case, then people will come along with that.


6. You write about the PM Masters (MSc) that you did and the impact it had. What it your approach to projects that changed, was it new tools and techniques you learned, was it people skills or all of the above? What is important in order to make it a success? I suppose it was important that you could go back to work and directly try out the things you learned? What is the advantage of doing a master as opposed to PMP for instance?


I think the Masters route first teaches you how to think critically and then asks you questions designed to give your brain a good workout on some key topics like outsourcing, cultural change, user requirements, benefits, scheduling and planning and many more!!  You have to be able to back up everything you write, so you need to know what the key arguments are and both sides of it.  Thinking about both sides makes you understand why best practice is best practice.  I'm not sure that other qualifications do that.

I really recommend doing a masters (MSc), especially if you consider yourself a 'deep thinker'.


7. What's the best way of learning soft skills? Other than learning over the years through experienced, is there something more proactive PMs can do?


I think you've got the language right there, because some suggest that you can't learn soft skills and I really disagree with that.


Active listening is one of the best soft skills that one can learn.  If you don't listen properly, why would others listen to you?  Doing loads of requirements interviews helped me to learn that, but I'm always learning.  As an ex-technician, I tend towards giving answers and it was really difficult for me to put the 'answer mode' on hold so that I could fully understand the problem.


8. What do you mean by "I see people who've 'learnt the rules' on a daily basis and you can spot it a mile away."?  What is it that PMs do wrong? What's the best way to get "beyond the rules"?


By 'the rules' I meant that people sometimes try to shortcut the pain of learning.  Go out there, observe what others do badly or well and build your own skillset.  Don't try to manipulate people, just be honest with them.  There are no ninja mind tricks. 


9. Regarding "benefits management" - do you have a top tip on that? 


Yes, I would recommend that people read Gerald Bradley's book on Benefits Management - it's £70, but it's an excellent book!  Luckily I reviewed it for Gower and got it free.  Basically, my top tip is to make benefits maps which are aligned to the organisational strategic objectives.  If you can't see the benefits in what you're being asked to do, it's probably best to think about whether it's worth doing the project or not - and certainly worth thinking about which bits to do in either case.

Gerald talks regularly at Project Challenge Expo (UK) on this topic, so if you get chance to attend, it's certainly worth making the effort to get the techniques from the horse's mouth (so to speak).  Gerald contributed to the benefits work in MSP and other books, so it's worthwhile getting on top of these techniques.  Portfolio benefits management seems interesting and a great way to work out which projects to do and which to drop.


10. Do you have any particular ways in which you learn from the past? Do you have a certain way of running post project reviews or other great techniques that work for you?


Start each project with looking at lessons learned from other projects.  End each project with a lessons learned review.

Accept that you're going to get criticised by people, that's inevitable.


11. How do you communicate to the team on day one "which behaviours are good and bad from your perspective"?


Talk with them!  I generally know much of the project team and they know what I'm about, but in the case of new people you need to be specific about what you expect and how they fit into that.  Having regular meetings is worthwhile but you don't always have that luxury.

Juggling Leadership

I was recently asked to answer a few questions on leadership for a book. I thought that it would be good to share these and see if people had any comments. I don't profess to be a great leader, but I do like to think that I inspire others to perform well.
So, here are the questions I got asked and the associated answers:

Which attributes, thinking patterns and actions would you say distinguish an outstanding project manager, or project leader, from an average project manager?


I think that an outstanding project manager has a need to understand how people and projects work. They're not just thinking about the old 'time, cost, performance' thing, but also about how to continuously improve, how they can help their teams better and how they can deliver things better next time. I'm constantly reading, seeking new information to fill in the gaps and I really care that I'm doing things in the best way possible.

When I'm managing staff, if we're doing new things, I'll tell them that we're breaking new ground and we're probably not going to get things just right from the outset. We plan, and then we change that plan as we go, as circumstances change and we learn new things about how we work and how the project environment works. I expect that both me and the team will do things wrong, but they often need need that room to explore as they're doing things. As time goes on, we tighten things up and by the end of the project, we're running like a well oiled machine - but you have to go through that initial learning curve to get to the end point.


Where do project managers most often go wrong? Which mistakes do they make?


Personally, I don't really like delivering anything where there isn't an obvious Business Case. If I'm being briefed up and the Business Case isn't obvious, then I'll ask if they'll let me test the Business Case first. If there's nothing obvious and I'm not allowed to test the case, and they're not running a pilot then I'll flag up that perhaps they really need to have a think. Generally those type of projects go to someone who doesn't ask the questions, but that doesn't bother me too much. Only a very brave executive that would force me to deliver something that they're just doing on a whim, because I've spent years building up a good reputation as a safe pair of hands and I'm not going to risk that by agreeing to deliver an absolute pig.

Many projects just focus on technology delivery, and that seems to be a bad thing. If you're not delivering cultural or procedural change with a technology support, then you're on a road to disaster. I've got enough theoretical knowledge to back up what I'm saying and that tends to be respected.


What are the most severe consequences of these mistakes? Can you provide examples?

I've seen some projects that have been just about delivering technology and they either never achieve the claimed benefits, or end up getting culled because there is no user requirement. Some senior managers develop ideas that don't look at the change holistically - they're just looking at delivering technology. I'm aware of a fairly high value (nearly £100m) project that isn't really used properly and this is because there wasn't really a robust need for it in the first place, and they didn't change the organisation to suit it's introduction.

I've been quite lucky avoiding this kind of thing because I tend to ask some really searching questions and that often means that the main culprits will steer well away from me when they're looking for a PM. I'm not negative, we just have a really honest discussion and perhaps their plan has to be thought about some more.

Do you have any examples or stories you can share where you (or someone else) felt overwhelmed with a project. You didn’t have enough time to do all your tasks, you were fire-fighting, didn’t have anyone to delegate to and as a result you de-prioritised some of the important parts of the project. It may be that you didn’t have enough time to plan the project properly, understand the overall vision of the project, connect with and motivate people, or manage the stakeholders’ expectations? You were simply too busy with the urgent to focus on that which was really important.

In the early days, I felt overwhelmed by everything!! Now I'm a lot calmer because I know that I can do it. I have got into some productivity traps from time to time though. The main one is when I've been really busy and inevitably someone starts to make trouble and I've sometimes ended up making tons of phone calls to sort things out and/or calm them down. 

There's one guy I know that will just throw up a massive red flag and circulate it to everyone under the sun and sometimes not even me. Luckily I've learned to cope with this kind of thing over time and I realise that the managers expect that from him. I keep them all informed and I'll flag up anything risky myself - building trust, so they know that anything coming in from left field is probably just mischief. My phone is always on and I don't mind getting asked to verify things.

Can you remember any AHA moments or Eureka moments from your own career where you suddenly ‘got it’? You stepped up, shifted gear and started applying yourself as a leader of people, rather than a manager of events, tasks and processes? Please describe that moment and what it was that made you shift.

I don't think there was ever a true 'Eureka' moment, but there have been many small incremental changes over the years. I've done quite a bit of training: management, project management, business analysis and every one of those has added more tools to the box and made things easier. If I had to really put my finger on one thing that changed the playing field, it would be when I did my PM Masters (MSc).

There was so much in there and I was just spending hours reading things and soaking up the knowledge. That was a great time because I was learning about all kinds of things, but it wasn't done at an overwhelming pace because I did it part-time. I know that during that time, the managers at work really started to notice what I was doing and that there was a big change in how I was working. I paid for that myself and the savings had to take a hit, but I'm glad that I did it.

The best bit was getting a distinction and winning the Dissertation of the Year prize and at that point people really started noticing because they started realising that what I'd learned was really respected and in demand externally.

I now have bigger budgets, more staff and I'm certainly doing things much better than I was before.


Can you think of anyone else who you believe experienced such a shift?

I know that others doing those type of courses saw a big change, because when I was debating whether to do the course, I asked a question on the LinkedIn APM group. Loads of people said that doing an MSc had been really good for them and they'd learned loads. It's not for everyone, but if you're one of the 'deep thinkers' and you can commit a huge amount of time, then you'll do well and learn a lot that will set you up for the rest of your PM career.

In which ways do you feel that the recent economic crisis has impacted projects and the required capabilities and expectations which companies have of project managers? Have you seen any evidence that PMs have to pay more attention to business cases, expenditure and identifying innovative ideas for how projects can provide more value to the customer for less money?

I work in the Public Sector and I know that the budgets have been impacted severely. Many resource budgets that were previously available aren't there anymore. Business Cases have to be much better and I know that the ROI through benefits is looked at much more seriously than it used to be.

I've always said that austerity didn't really worry me because I made sure that my projects had sufficient benefits and a good user requirement. As other people have struggled, my business cases have still worked well because they were robust before and the new ones are equally robust. The difference between other Business Cases and mine is that I've got several years of writing good ones under my belt, even though I could have just dropped the quality a few years ago. I'm not gold-plating, just doing things right.

In which ways do you feel that the emphasis on hard skills in schools and the rational ways in which most westerners have been brought up is impacting project manager’s ability to lead people and deliver successful projects? Are we generally poor at leading people because we haven’t been taught how to inspire and motivate others and how to build great relationships?

I don't feel that schools are teaching the right things for business, or they weren't when I left school in 1988. There was a real emphasis on things like History and English literature, and it didn't rock anyone's world from what I can remember. Computing hadn't really taken off and computers couldn't really do very much. People didn't have the slightest idea what was going to happen over the next few years. The funny thing was that they could have taught more basic things in maths about running businesses and people probably could have seen the point of that. I've never had to use a 'simultaneous linear equation' since leaving school and I probably won't ever need to!

I think that there's a big barrier out there, because many people think that you can't learn soft skills and you've either got it or you haven't. It's a total myth - people change throughout their life.

What are your top tips for project mangers who want to step up, become a authentic and impactful leaders who add real value, build great teams and get results?

My advice is quite simple:

1) Be a servant leader

As a PM, you're either helping or you're in the way. If you're getting in the way of the team's productivity, or they're raising issues and you're not sorting them, then you're chaff and not really contributing to the overall picture.
One of my pet hates is managers who treat their staff like slaves. Staff hate managers like that, and will go to the n'th degree to make their life more difficult. I always remember the line of a song that keeps me focussed "and you just say that 'he just works for me', doing things that you can't do. So grease my palm with a hatful of currency, 'cos I don't belong to you" (Del Amitri, Hatful of Rain). With that sort of advice, how could I take the team for granted?

I think of myself as the oil that keeps their machine going, and sometimes that means that I end up doing things that I don't want to do, in order to make their life easier and the project run better. I clear the politics, barriers, lend a pair of hands where necessary, set equipment up, sort ordering or delivery problems out and generally try to make things work well. I wouldn't ask anyone to do anything that I wouldn't be prepared to do myself. People tend to notice that kind of behaviour and react well to it.

2) Always be learning

When I left college, I thought 'well, that's it for learning'. How wrong I was! After another 20+ years, I've got a degree, masters, professional qualifications and read literally thousands of articles on management, project management, leadership and strategy. I can't see a point where that will change, because my mind is still like a sponge. Sure, it's a sponge that doesn't remember things first time some of the time, but it is still sponge-ish and I take great delight in reading all sort of materials that I can apply to real-life.

3) Always act with the best intention of the organisation in mind

I've seen so many managers who are seeking to feather their own nests. Bigger teams, bigger budgets, often to fuel big egos. I have a small team that works well. I have a modest budget, but it's carefully managed to run the projects that I have. I work hard to try and benefit the organisation, sharing new learning and helping to build the staff. I won't support anything that is 'selfish' and teams see that and understand what's going on. It's fairly simple advice really - if you're acting in the best interest of the firm, then I'm happy.


Do you have any other tips that can help project managers achieve any of the following; 

o become a better people manager


Act as you want others to act. Set an example that can be followed by observation.

Tell people when they're behaving how you want, don't just criticise the bad stuff. People want to do the right thing and get praise.
Do some management training. You may think you know it all if you've got experience, but only 25% of managers are trained and almost everyone thinks they could do a better job than their boss. Go figure.


o build better client relationships

Talk to them, find out what they need and want. Try and discover why they need it, understand their business and their teams. Really make an effort to do that, but don't just go through the motions. I see people who've 'learnt the rules' on a daily basis and you can spot it a mile away. I won't deal with those people unless I can't avoid it, and your customers will be the same.

o deliver business benefits that add sustained value to the client

Do benefits management. Get good User Requirements. Really take time to understand the customer and you'll get good requirements. Deliver those and you'll be on the right track.
Some of the best advice I ever had was this: I was working with a manager who used to quote the old Ford-ism "If I have asked the users what they wanted, they'd have asked for a faster horse". This suggested that the customer didn't know what they wanted, and of course led to development of a whole range of 'innovative' stuff that the customer didn't want. I was discussing this with my friend Dr Penny Pullan who is a well respected Business Analyst and she said to me "In those situations, I always ask what delivering a faster horse would have given you". Penny didn't give me the answer to her question, but I'm convinced that 99/100 times, the answer would be 'happy customers'.

People often quote Apple as being successful, innovative but not consultative. Strange then, that there are often loads of 'product leaks' of all sorts of iterations of their products which then get ripped to shreds by the public. If that's not been carefully orchestrated, then I'd be extremely surprised.

o continuously improve, take risks and innovate

Always be learning! Keep up to date with the best practice, academic stuff and anything else you can get your hands on. Try stuff on a small 'pilot' scale and see if it works. If not, why wasn't it successful? Keep thinking, reviewing and asking questions.
Look at what you did and ask yourself and others if it was the right thing to do, or could you have done things better? Give the team permission to make mistakes, but keep an eye out for real howlers. If/when things go wrong, make sure it's positive and not that you've given them rope to hang themselves.

o avoid fire-fighting and instead focus on what is most important

When you've put out all (or most) of the fires, have a look at what you can do to prevent fires in the future. When you've got a spare moment, work on improving things so that those fires aren't happening in future. Learn to prioritise on an urgent/important basis and do, defer, delegate or drop as appropriate.
A lot of that is taught on management courses, so if you're rushed off your feet, but haven't been formally trained, then perhaps you need to go and get some more tools in the toolbox.

o become more visionary and inspirational

Develop a vision and be inspiring! Act like the best leaders do. Be the best that you can be, be clear about what your game is, and communicate that. As Reginald Harling said, "Get ahead, then give others a helping hand to catch up".


o become more assertive and impactful and learn to say no

I think that much of this is about communication. If you say "look, I can't do this without affecting other things that I'm working on. If you want me to do it, I'll make it happen, but I'll either need to delay or stop doing something that I'm currently doing, or I'll need x, y, and z". Give them a range of options and they've had a conditional yes, rather than a no. 9/10 times you'll get the job and more assets to achieve it. They have asked you to do something because they like how you do it, so 'No' was never really going to be a viable option anyway, but you do have to protect the quality of your output, or the reputation will suffer.

o be authentic and honest

Actually be authentic and honest. It's much easier to do that than to live an elaborate lie that will catch you out and then you'll lose respect. If you have to learn how to do this, all is lost!!

o get better at motivating and empowering a global team (virtual, multi-cultural, matrix team)

I always remember that the team's successes need to be attributed back to those individuals. Without the team support, I'd just be a 'team of one'. Make sure that the team know which behaviours are good and bad from your perspective and they'll start to do the good things because they want the praise. You need to set that out from day one, but it's OK to communicate it if you see anything that you don't like. Then give praise when they do the good things. Focus on the behaviour and not the person.
Cultural differences are always difficult. My partner is from Hong Kong and I was given this advice when over there "you're a polite and nice person, just act that way and you'll be fine". You might end up committing the odd cultural gaffe, but generally you'll be OK if you just try to be nice.

Is there anything else you haven’t already mentioned which you feel is an important capability or behaviour to project leaders?

Get some training and then follow it. Be nice to people. I think that I already said all that ;-)

If someone makes a mistake, try to view it as a learning experience and then move on. If you can't do that, then sack them, but don't keep them and then keep punishing.


What is the best way for project managers to grow and develop into leaders?

Get stuck in, make mistakes, admit the mistakes, move on and get better. Lead by example and give people all the support and chances that you had. Don't cover up your mistakes, because everyone will be aware of them.

How can organisations and line managers best support their project managers to step up and become leaders?

Support formal management training, whether it be line management of project management training.

Encourage people who are clearly trying to lead and don't keep slapping them down.
Never believe that your staff don't have anywhere else to go, because I've rarely met anyone that wouldn't move.
So, that's it from me - what do you think?

Friday, 4 October 2013

Process improvement interviewing over the phone

Some things are better done face-to-face.  Process mapping is one of those things, but when your wife is a week overdue, then you're probably not going to risk being at the wrong end of the country.

So I spent a fairly frustrating couple of hours discussing reworking of a V1.0 process map that I'd done a week or so ago.  It was only a draft, came from a meeting that I'd had with the chap doing a review of their department and clearly was never going to be right first time.

So, it took a couple of hours and may be closer this time than last time, but again it most likely won't be right.  That's not a problem really, the idea is to get towards it being right and map the actual 'as is'.  What is really obvious is that the current process is really complex.  I'm not sure if we can make it better, but I'm fairly sure that there are a few tweaks that can be made here and there.

My initial take is that the process is too complex and there also needs to be some more formal QA in the system.  In a way, it's OK if the process is complex, but if it can be simplified then that makes sense.  The lack of QA is clearly more disturbing.  I'm sure that there is QA in there, but it wasn't obvious from what I was hearing today.

I think of an old-style photographic printing lab here.  They get photos in to process within 24 hours and also ones that only need to be back within a week.  The 7 day ones fit around the 24 hour ones, but even the slow lane is being checked to ensure that it's running at sufficient speed to complete everything within the correct timescales.  So they have monitoring processes and sufficient additional capacity to ensure that the backlog of work can still be done within reasonable timescales.  Even then, they can still run faster and for more hours if they need to catch up, and they can even outsource if something really bad happens, like a machine breakdown.

So, more QA and perhaps the ability to work a few more hours if they get a backlog and need to catch up?  Hardly groundbreaking really.  Well, no...but then it is 'improvement' and not 're-design'.

Thursday, 26 September 2013

Workflow for baby MK2


In a few days, I'm due to become a father for the second time.

I thought it would be a good idea to revisit some of the learning from last time, so I read my original "Can you Project Manage a baby?"

If you've not seen this and are a new parent or are thinking about becoming one, have a look here:  http://juggling-sand.blogspot.co.uk/2011/07/can-you-project-manage-baby.html

The key message that I would like to convey to new parents, is that parenting shouldn't scare you, after all people have been doing it for years!  You will undoubtedly be worried that you're going to kill the child accidentally, but it is really unlikely that this will happen.  Having said this, if you don't want to die of tiredness yourself, there are some basic things that you do need to pick up quickly.


For us, one of the most difficult things was that we couldn't figure out what exactly made the baby cry at any particular time.  It took a while for us to figure this out, but that was stressful and I thought that it would be easier to publish something quite simple to assist new parents.

In my professional life, I'm also messing around (learning) BPMN2.0 for some of the more 'Internal consultant-y' work that I do, and this was a great opportunity to get some hands-on experience using the process tool.

The idea was to do something that was tongue in cheek, rather than something overly serious.  Trust me though, this flowchart does actually work!!





So what is this all about?  Babies are primarily interested in sleeping, but they get really grumpy if they're wet/dirty, hungry or have wind.  So you just need to run though a simple process to sort things out - essentially a workflow.  When you're winding, 'more is more' because babies seem to find a little wind really nasty, but they also seem to release loads of it in tiny parcels.


That's the sort of thing that you need to be stencilled on the fridge door when it's 3am, you've not slept for 9 days, and you're contemplating if it's actually possible to die from tiredness.

If you're reading this and thinking "that guy doesn't take thing seriously enough and probably makes a really bad dad and husband", you'd be wrong.  I'm really committed to the role, but I was so uptight before I became a parent and I want people who are just becoming parents to realise that you're probably going to have to go with the flow a bit more.  You can't really control a baby - just like in life, control is an illusion!!

Wednesday, 25 September 2013

What does Project Management mean to me - #pmflashblog


I am writing this article for #pmflashblog , which is a collection of Project Managers around the world, writing on a single topic at a specific time (or reasonably specific time anyway)

The topic of this first #pmflashblog is “What does Project Management mean to me?”



Well, for me being a PM is pretty much about professionalism.  Everything else falls out of that.


Professionalism:

A professional seeks to be at the top of his/her game.  They keep up to date with the industry, actually follow best practice (may take some time to get right) and they generally do the right thing in the right way.

I’m not suggesting that a professional gets it right all the time, because I’ve made some absolute howlers.  Neither am I suggesting that their personality is perfect, because I don’t know anyone who fits that bill.  What I’m suggesting that they actively try and do things better each time.

I’ve been walking this path for some time now.  It leads to a lot of thinking, some real breakthroughs and a whole lot of pain - but it is worthwhile to keep putting the effort in because it does pay off in the long run.

So what PM skills do you need to develop in order to make this happen?


Control the main project killers, Pareto style:

As a PM, you need to know that a few things are project killers.  There is a list as long as your arm (or leg) of things that can cause issues, but the key things are these:

1)  Top Management Support
2)  Undefined Success Criteria
3)  Project Stakeholders/Clients have not been interviewed for Project Requirements
4)  Lack of Resources/availability of personnel
5)  PM cannot communicate effectively with clients

These sound really basic.  The simple truth is: yes, they are simple, but they’re the most common project killers and if you keep controlling those, you’re going to be on a better track than those who don’t.

You’re always going to get stuck at some point in a project, but if you control those things then you’ve got a far better chance of success.


Manage the benefits and everything else will come:

Most project managers think in terms of time, cost and performance but the truly enlightened know that a project is all about delivering benefits.  Trust me that no-one will care that you came in under budget if the house has no roof because you de-scoped it in a bid to bring everything in under budget and on time.


Be a servant leader:

Be there to clear blockages for your teams.  It sounds simple, but the only reason that you’re there is to make things easier for them - otherwise you’re chaff.  Be a servant leader, and seek to make things better and easier for the team and they’ll not just support you as the Project Manager, but they’ll make you their God.


Work for the best of the organisation, not yourself:

If you work in the best interests of the organisation, then that will be noticed.  People will try to do you over from time to time (think daily) but if you’re working in the best interests of the organisation, then they’ll be seen for what they are.  Be clear that’s what you’re doing because people need to know that.  It’s about setting a good example, and doing the right thing.  It will seem thankless at first, but you will be noticed in time.  Play the long game.


Don’t take yourself too seriously:

Seriously, don’t.  If you can’t find some time to have a laugh and a joke even when things are getting really bonkers, then go and work in a supermarket or anywhere but here.  Life is too short to be too serious and people don’t really like folk who aren’t approachable.  Many people think that Project Management is about being serious.  Well it is a serious job, but don’t let it get you glum, chum.


Anyhow, hopefully that’s given you an idea about what PM is to me.  Some days are great and others aren’t.  You’ve got to remember that you’re the Rock Star and the Tea Boy, so get in there and make a cuppa.  Mine’s a tea, milk no sugar!!

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

Why use a Business Analyst?

In my quest to become a better Project Manager, I've ended up learning the basics of Business Analysis (BA).

BA is something that fascinates me, probably more than being a Project Manager. The BA has to understand the business and the reason for change. They need to understand the structure and culture of the business and how healthy the business is. They also need to understand the needs of the management and the users.

Essentially we're talking here about doing the 'right thing' when we're changing things. Making the projects deliver the right thing in the right way.

In order to do this, the BA needs to look at three key areas:

1) How things are at the moment (as is).
2) How things will become (to be).
3) The gap between the two (gap analysis).

The 'as is' and 'to be' won't necessarily be done as 1 then 2. You may need to start with how things need to be and work backwards, or start with how things are and streamline things. The former is more likely to be 'big bang' and the latter is more likely to be gentle and iterative. There is no right or wrong way to do this, because it depends on who is driving the change - whether it's strategic or emergent needs.

There are many tools to ensure that this is all done 'correctly', but essentially it's about trying to do change in the best way possible.

See you 'on the ground'
Dave (@juggingsand).

Friday, 28 June 2013

MSc Dissertation - Now Award Winning!!

Hi All,

I've been asked by a few people to share my dissertation once it was completed.  Although it was completed last year, I didn't want to share it before now because I wanted to see it marked before I released it anywhere.

As you will see from previous posts, the effort that I put in wasn't wasted and it earned me both a MSc Distinction and also an award for MMU "Best MSc Dissertation of 2012/13".  I am proud of both these accolades, as I put hundreds of hours work into the paper.

So, in true academic collaborative spirit, I am sharing my work with those who are prepared to take the time to read it.

A word of caution:  This work is registered as my original work on academic anti-plagiarism systems, so if you want to quote or cite it, please remember that you'll need to acknowledge my original work.

Bloggers/Tweeters, if you want to use any of the content in things that you're writing, please ask for permission. I'll probably only ask that you credit my work.

Many thanks,
Dave (@jugglingsand)

The link to my work:
https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B9bV4TWjk3fidGZCSGZaYVdOZ3c/edit?usp=sharing

Saturday, 22 June 2013

Best Dissertation!

I just found out that I won the university's award for "Best Masters Dissertation in the academic year 2012/2013"

Wow...I'm speechless!!

OK, almost speechless...

Although I tried really hard to write the best dissertation possible, I can't claim all the credit for this.

My original business tutor, Julie Owen taught me that writing for any outlet should be in plain language and that we should avoid academic language whenever possible. I read some example dissertations that I literally couldn't concentrate on because of the language. This helped me realise that to write something readable was the key. So I didn't write my MSc thesis in language that was supposed to impress academia, I wrote it so that it would be as readable as possible.

My dissertation tutor Rosane was really helpful during our original discussions. Without a good subject, I would have struggled and I think we came up with an excellent subject collaboratively. Rosane's feedback was brilliant.

Early in my studies, I listened to advice given in "On Writing Well" by William Zinsser. Although largely about writing fiction, I took the advice Zinsser gave and put it into my writing.

During the MSc, I read everything I could and wrote for a variety of different outlets. I reviewed books for ILM and Arras People, wrote blog posts and generally just practiced writing. Writing in different styles help the author to become more flexible. I wrote on trains, at home, in coffee shops, in hospital waiting rooms (my wife was pregnant at the time), and generally anywhere where I could use paper and pen or a laptop.

I wrote a chapter for "People in Projects" (due to be released in 2013) which was also great practice. Collaborating with another author and working as a virtual team really helped me to understand the subject. Jon Hyde and I also discussed projects in some depth and this helped me to develop the final dissertation subject choice.

During my research, many project managers helped to formulate my ideas and I will be eternally grateful to those who contributed to the questionnaires. Your assistance was invaluable.

I also particularly want to thank people at work who allowed me to write Business Cases, reports and other articles which helped me to gain more experience, both in Project Management and in writing.

Most of all, I want to thank my wife for her support. Thanks for letting me get on with it.

Tuesday, 5 March 2013

Business Analysis - Passed!!

I've just found out that i've passed the BCS Business Analysis Certificate.  I'm really happy about this as it was four modules of applying the theories of process mapping, requirements capture/recording, process modelling and business theory to scenarios that are based on real businesses and real problems.

The best thing about it though, is the difference it's made at work.  Only had a couple of opportunities to apply the techniques so far, but it's powerful stuff.  I've done two requirements interviews and one mini-workshop so far, and it's been great.  People are so grateful that someone has come to speak to them, and not only that, the person is listening to them, and has a real conversation about their requirements for things.

It's a real 'win-win' because I get to reduce the risk to my projects and the staff get listened to and get their views heard.  I'm confident that I did things before pretty well, but the new techniques are much better.

Now I'm looking forward to doing a bit more process mapping, swim lanes, use cases, and requirements cataloguing, and seeing how it improves how the projects work.  Let me know if you've had any success with the same.

Card game - "Card Sorting World Challenge"

I was recently on a course where we played a simple card game and I thought that you might like to try it.

It's really simple, all you have to do is:

  • Start with a fully shuffled pack of cards, face down
  • The clock starts when you pick the cards up
  • Sort cards into suits red, black, red, black
  • Each suit needs sorted into ascending order, starting with the Ace and ending with the Jack, Queen and King.
  • One joker needs to be on the top of the pile and one at the bottom.
  • The clock stops when the cards are placed back on the table, sorted correctly, face up.

You may use any method to sort the cards out, but you must try and complete the sort as quickly as possible.  I'm really interested in how you complete the task, as well as how long it takes, so you need to film the sorting and post it on YouTube or similar for the timing to count.

Tuesday, 15 January 2013

Dump the procrastinators

I've been lacking the motivation to get up recently. I'm not depressed or anything, it's just that the temptation of a warm bed often seems too good to leave on these cold winter mornings!

It's not that I don't want to work either. I'm happy to put in a solid days work at the kitchen table, doing most of my work by phone and on the mobile device.

So what is it that makes me want to avoid getting out of the house and to the office?

It started off as me not wanting to get up and iron my shirt. The front room is so cold in the morning and the bed is so warm.

So I started ironing my shirts in bulk and removed that blocker. No excuse now, just roll a shirt up, stick it in the bag and go!

Except that I'm still reluctant to get out of bed.

Perhaps it was the cup of tea that just had to be made and drunk prior to leaving the house. Or could it be the bowl of cereal that needed to be savoured? Perhaps it could be the second bowl...after all, cyclists do need extra energy.

So I dumped those too and I just get up and go. So do I feel better when I just rush out of the house without those things? Probably not, but I do manage to get out of the house. I certainly feel better once I've achieved my goal!

This is like anything that needs to be achieved in life. There will always be things that get in the way of us achieving our goals, whether those goals are getting out of bed or becoming Prime Minister. You just need to work at removing or reducing the barriers to success.

Friday, 14 December 2012

Mr Course

Someone called me "Mr Course" yesterday. I must say that I prefer "Mr Self Improvement" though. You don't need to improve yourself by courses, although they can often help.

I guess this comment comes from the team meeting where a colleague had been looking for training/guidance on completing job applications and so had found himself on a shortlisting course. He felt that this was inappropriate for his needs. I disagreed, because by understanding how the shortlisting is done, you can learn how to write better applications.

There are plenty of opportunities for informal training out there. Many people don't seem to see this and are losing out. It's not too difficult unless you don't want to learn. For example, I spend a fair amount of time writing stuff because I realised that I'd become inflexible in my writing.

There are loads of opportunities out there to sharpen your axe. Don't waste 'em!

Thursday, 13 December 2012

PMO scenario

I went to my first PMOSIG meeting last night. I'm not employed in a PMO, but rather that I am ultimately governed by a PMO.

So I went along out of curiosity.

The meeting was more of a workshop, run by Graham Oakes (@GrahamDOakes) who is a PMO consultant.

The scenario was that we were a team leading a review, and were given an hour to simulate a 3 day review. There were three briefing pages where we got an overview of the Organisation, the people and the project - and then we had to decide who we wanted to interview, what docs we needed, etc.

As soon as we started the simulation, the scenario was abundantly clear. ICT-driven development without user engagement. That old chestnut. So we ran through the thing requesting the Business Case, PID, Comms Plan (no Comms Plan) Risk Register, Benefits Case, etc. Each request yielded a card (or cards) prompting conversation and it was lively.

The project scenario was a real dog. It was sucking up time and effort from all PM resources, it was spiraling out of control and yet the risks, milestones and EV all would look normal to the PMO - unless the surface was scratched.

The interesting thing was that there was a really massive focus on 'is there a valid Business Case?' when it was obvious that even if delivered to time/cost/quality, it wasn't going to ever be accepted by the users, they'd clearly not been properly consulted and there was rumour in abundance.

One of the best comments I remember in for use in this case is "If you're trying to do change based on a user driven problem, speak to the users. If you're trying to do strategic change that is not user driven, speak to the users."

This is real wisdom. Users can make or break any change, whether it is emergent or strategic. If you work in HR and you believe that you can railroad change simply by changing policies, then you are sadly misled - because in this case your Organisation does not work how you think it does.

The truth is that people will be asked to do something and then they'll tend to optimize their own work. You need to reflect and support that. I always like to ask the question "If people here decided to work to rule, what would happen?" - would the place grind to a halt, or could you happily say "bring it on!"?

Sounds antagonistic, but there is a real basic truth in this. Do your processes fit the work, or do you expect people to follow broken processes? In the latter, I believe that your processes will not match the jobs being done. This means that people won't be able to understand how other departments work and how to relate to them or get things done.

So whether we get asked to solve a user problem, or a strategic one the key is to speak to users, find out what's actually being done at the moment, map the processes and then discover how we can change things and what users will accept in terms of change.

Then we can base change on that. But the business case will be much easier to write because we really understand the 'as is' and the 'to be' situations. We can easily articulate the problem and the situation because we actually know what the problem and the solution is!

I was explaining this to someone the other day and they asked me about a project they were working on "So where did this problem come from?" Ultimately the problem in question was strategic, but to choose the right solution they need to find out what the users need and will accept. This obviously takes longer than thrusting change on people, but actually takes less time overall and is more successful because (as Covey said) we "start with the end in mind" - i.e. what does a successful outcome look like, and who will use the products that people produce?

So, back to the PMO workshop. Brilliant and very thought provoking. Thanks to Graham for developing and facilitating the session, to Lindsay Scott (@projectmgmt) for arranging it, and to MMU for hosting it in their fantastic new Business School building.

Friday, 23 November 2012

MSc Outcome

Just got the MSc results, and I passed with a distinction!

If you helped by completing the questionnaire, I'd just like to say an extra-special thanks for your support.

Overcoming the apathy barrier

I often come across people who seem to take apathy to the next level, you know the kind...constant excuses for why things haven't been done, often more effort than doing the task in the first place.

Then I see that person sitting around and I think "Why don't you spend this time doing something more productive?" This apathy or lack of ability to move forward is like a sickness. The more you do it, the less able you become. Once you break the cycle and get productive, it becomes a great buzz to achieve those things that you were putting off.

Those of you who know me, know that I was in a Mountain Rescue (MR) Team. I learned a load from doing that, but one big thing was overcoming the inertia of apathy.

When you stepped out on the hill, you knew that your feet were going to get soaked, which was both wet and cold - totally horrible. But it was going to happen anyway, so better to get it over with and get them wet as soon as possible so at least your feet could warm the water up.

Apathy at work is like that. The more you put things off, the more difficult they become to get going. How many jobs have we put off at work or at home. It becomes like a joke that they've not been done!

One of my first jobs when I left college was to work in a telesales office. You knew that you were going to get shouted at, but you had a target to meet, so you just needed to accept that, take a deep breath and get started. After a few calls, you'd be 'in the zone' and the day would fly by.

So why can't people seem to get over this apathy barrier? My only guess is that they don't want to. Why?

I believe that most people want to do a great job. Give them a task and empower them and they'll get on with it without the need to micromanage. Tell them when they're doing well (when they are) and challenge unacceptable performance.

You'll always get people dumped on projects, but how well you motivate them is up to you!

Sunday, 7 October 2012

Change good?

Just watching a programme on TV about infrastructure projects. There was a clip on there of ex-Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher saying that people shouldn't moan about change, they should be celebrating change and saying how Great Britain is.

My feeling is that Britain is great, but we shouldn't see those who disagree with change as being wrong or somehow un-patriotic. No-one likes change when it affects their 'back yard' in a negative way. But what about when the change is in someone else's back yard? Are we quite as sensitive in that case?

As people involved in projects, we need to be sympathetic to people's needs. People who are affected by HS2, extra runways, nuclear power stations, etc are all entitled to their views and they should be listened to as stakeholders. There are always ways to ensure as many people are on side as possible.

We also need to consider - are we doing the right thing in the first place? There is often the biased view that what we're doing is right, even though sometimes it isn't. We may even have nagging doubts about if we're really doing good.

So, as change begins at home...what am I going to do about it? Well, I am already on my way in terms of this. I always consult the customer widely on proposed changes, but I also sell the concept of Business Analysis at all levels. This means that I seek to look at the existing process and find out how to improve it using the customer input.

What about massive changes? Well, I think that changes like that have to be approached collaboratively and I also think there is usually a middle ground between the two extremes - it's usually just a case of trying a little bit harder to actually find a practical solution that suits everyone.

Tuesday, 2 October 2012

Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong

Overheard on the train on a Monday evening - "Yuk, it's only Monday. Another four days left to go"

That person is definitely in the wrong job. Don't get me wrong, I don't spend all weekend wishing that it was Monday, but I certainly don't wish the week away. I'm usually so busy that the week goes by in a flash!!

Big effort?

What makes people into 'bigging themselves up' without delivering?

I'm constantly thinking "how can I deliver more for the organisation?", whereas I've noticed that some people seem great at telling others what they're planning on doing, but never delivering on those promises.

I'm amazed at the lengths people will go to, in order to make excuses about not delivering. It's like the old joke excuse 'the dog ate my homework'. My ex and I used to say 'random excuse #654' when we just couldn't be bothered, suggesting that we couldn't even be bothered to make up an excuse.

Friday, 7 September 2012

MSc Dissertation Complete!!

Hi all!

I just thought that I'd update to let people who may follow this blog, that the MSc Dissertation is completed and submitted!!  If you helped me by completing a questionnaire, or forwarded it to others to complete...many thanks for your help!!

It's been an interesting process, and I've learned a lot during the last 6 months of writing and reading for the final assignment.

A few people have asked me to post the results, and I plan to do that once I've got the marks - wouldn't want to feed you the wrong information!  There are some really good tips, probably common sense to most of you out there, but they represent the main things that you need to keep on top of and I will post that as soon as I know that it's all OK.

Thanks,
Dave.

Tuesday, 28 August 2012

MSc Questionnaire Prize Draw

I am pleased to announce that the MSc Questionnaire Prize Draw has now been run.

The winner was chosen by generating random numbers using MS Excel.  The unique ID of the first person who had fully completed the survey won the draw, as per the draw rules.

Brian Goulding of Pygma Consulting, South Africa was the winner.  After a brief e-mail exchange, Brian kindly asked that his prize be donated to benefit another PM student, so I am looking to donate a book (or books) to the value of £30 to the Manchester Metropolitan University Business School library.

Brian left the choice of books to me, so after some thought, I picked out two key books that have been particularly of use to me during my PM studies - Project Management by Dennis Lock, and Business Analysis by James Cadle (and others).  I have contacted the university to find out how I can get an extra copy of one or both of these books into the library.

Once again, thanks to everyone who was involved in the questionnaire.  Your contribution to my work was much appreciated.  I will post results (and perhaps the full dissertation) on my blog once my MSc work has been submitted, marked and moderated.

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

MSc research

Well, the survey is now closed.

Many thanks to those who completed the survey fully!!

I'll post results once I've got all the data loaded up into the database, analysed it and completed the dissertation.  Not sure yet whether the results will prove anything of statistical relevance, but if not there are still some excellent opportunities to pick up some good practice from others in the industry.

Overall, I hope other PM's, (especially new ones) will be able to learn something useful from the answers that some of the more experienced people gave.

Tuesday, 24 July 2012

The Big Survey

Just published my latest consultation survey at work.  Got 35+ responses within an hour.  Only three weeks left to go.  Woohoo, I reckon that we should get at least 150 responses - which I think is not at all bad for this kind of thing!!  I am so glad that people are getting involved with the work.

There are some really good answers - not just half-completed or empty responses.

The issues are really not much more than what I originally thought.  I think that it's going to break down pretty much as I expected, but it's still important to ask.  The process is totally worthwhile, as it gives the users a voice and encourages them to get involved.

The moment that I think that I don't need to consult users, please direct me right back to this post!!

Working with WordPress

I'm trying to move my blog over onto WordPress at the moment, but am finding a few issues with the config.  You may find that my domain is forwarded to the Blogger or the WordPress version over the next few weeks while I figure out how it all works on WordPress.  Please bear with me...

Tuesday, 19 June 2012

MSc Questionnaire

If you've arrived here after completing my MSc questionnaire, I would like to say a big "thank you" for your efforts.

Once I've done some analysis on the results, I will post the results on this blog.

If you've done a partial completion, please take the time to go back and complete the answers fully, as I need the full picture from you in order to ensure that I can actually get something useful from the survey.

As I promised, fully answered questionnaires will be entered into a prize draw for a £30 Amazon voucher, but you have to complete the survey fully to be eligible!!

There are some interesting results so far, and I am hoping that the analysis will uncover some really exciting points.  I have already thought of some ways in which I may be able to improve the survey, such as country where the PM works, and putting the e-mail address at the end of the survey - but unfortunately I can't edit a survey that's currently running without losing all the data!!

I might also change the 'fail modes' section to 'check-box' quantitative-type questions, but I didn't want to bias the results by giving a limited number of options for people to tick off.  By leaving the advanced questions as qualitative, open-ended questions, it gives people a chance to give their own answers, and not be biased by mine.

I was also surprised that someone ripped off some of the questions from my survey and posted them in the APM group.  The funny thing is that the perpetrator wasn't doing it to help me, and he wasn't helping other PM's, students, academia, or even himself, as there is no way of drawing anything further out of the answers except the respondee's opinion - no way of discovering how the answers link to the level of experience, risk, age, sector, industry, professional body, qualifications, etc.  Normally, I wouldn't respond to the challenge, but I felt that I had to post a response because the guy was risking biasing my entire MSc work.  On the whole, a bit of a nightmare!!  I will need to have a look and see if there's any element of 'groupthink' after the time when the guy posted the questions, and also have a look at what the responses from group members are.

Anyhow, as usual...many thanks for reading!!

Monday, 18 June 2012

Questionnaires for business

I seem to be creating quite a few questionnaires for business at the moment.

Getting the most out of the participants is quite a skill, but I believe that I'm getting better with each piece of work that I carry out.  Although I would say that I'm far from an expert, I really enjoy finding out what the users need and then working out how we can deliver that using a project.

Many projects don't have a very good User Requirement, or stakeholders haven't been fully engaged with prior to the project starting and this can have some major effects on the chance of success.

If you're reading this because you've recently completed my MSc research questionnaire, then many thanks for participating in my work.  I would appreciate any comments which you have.  On the other hand, if you haven't completed the survey yet, help me by completing it here:

http://www.limesurvey.jugglingsand.co.uk/index.php?sid=14687&lang=en

I'll publish the results here once I've got enough responses and I've had chance to analyse the results!!

I've learned a lot during the last two years and plan to carry on a similar rate of learning as time goes on and I get to use the MSc learning more and more in my daily work.

Thursday, 23 February 2012

The Agile Manifesto

Principles behind the Agile Manifesto


We follow these principles:

Our highest priority is to satisfy the customer through early and continuous delivery of valuable software.

Welcome changing requirements, even late in development. Agile processes harness change for the customer's competitive advantage.

Deliver working software frequently, from a couple of weeks to a couple of months, with a preference to the shorter timescale.

Business people and developers must work together daily throughout the project.

Build projects around motivated individuals. 

Give them the environment and support they need, and trust them to get the job done.

The most efficient and effective method of conveying information to and within a development team is face-to-face conversation.

Working software is the primary measure of progress.

Agile processes promote sustainable development. 

The sponsors, developers, and users should be able to maintain a constant pace indefinitely.

Continuous attention to technical excellence and good design enhances agility.

Simplicity--the art of maximizing the amount of work not done--is essential.

The best architectures, requirements, and designs emerge from self-organizing teams.

At regular intervals, the team reflects on how to become more effective, then tunes and adjusts its behavior accordingly.

(Courtesy of http://agilemanifesto.org/)

Saturday, 18 February 2012

Virtual teams - benefit or disadvantage?

I was recently at University (MSc course) where the topic of virtual teams and outsourcing was discussed.

There was a great deal of discussion about the benefit of virtual teams, i.e. how wonderful they are, all the benefits of them, etc. People were suggesting things like "you can have 24/7 production".  Well, that may be true, but that is not really an argument for virtual teams and outsourcing.

The reality is that virtual teams and outsourcing is good if you are only bothered about the cost of the item that you're producing. Everything else is a disadvantage, re-framed as a "cool feature".  For example, videoconferencing as a benefit.  It's a benefit if you or your organisation has outsourced production somewhere else, but if you're just on one site, then it's unnecessary!  What I'm saying is that by trying to save money in production, you've shifted the cost (and problems) to somewhere else, i.e. having to get around the issue that people are spread across multiple sites and timezones.

That's not to say that if you are a global organisation, you shouldn't do things like that.  All your programming talent may be in India, or wherever and you want to utilise their skills instead of using staff locally.  Or maybe you have a PM who is only available in another country or location.  I understand that.  But perhaps you should just produce the product in one place?  I just don't really see that virtual teams are really that much of a benefit apart from an attempt to reduce cost.

Perhaps I've missed something though, so I would welcome your input/discussion of this.  You can either reply here, or on Twitter to @jugglingsand

Thursday, 22 September 2011

How do you juggle sand?

I was just chatting to someone who asked me how to go about juggling sand.

Juggling sand is really like project management, if you spend some time planning how to do it, think laterally, and have a little experience in the subject area, then it is quite achievable!

I'm not going to explain how I would juggle sand for the moment - like projects, there are a variety of ways of achieving your aims...I know how I would do it, but perhaps there are some suggestions from readers out there? ;-)

(Update 18Feb12 - Just so that people don't think that I don't know how to achieve this, I would mix the sand with water and freeze it so that the sand is solid, and then juggle it!)

Wednesday, 13 July 2011

Can you project manage a baby?

I recently became a father for the first time. (or as I recently said to a colleague "I was given line management responsibilities for a baby")

As a project manager, I wondered if you can "project manage a baby".

We did a pretty good job of preparing the things that needed to be prepared and making sure that we knew if we were having a boy or a girl – no blue outfits for girls in our house!!  I also arranged a pretty good baby shower for my partner and her friends.

After the baby was born, it was a different matter.  I hadn’t quite fully grasped, is that babies are “drum resources” and that you have to completely fit your life around them.  Before becoming a parent, my only experience of looking after children was when I looked after my niece.  We could hand her back at the end of the day and that was the part of being a parent that was the biggest shock.

I started the “project” by researching lessons learned by other people.  Colleagues and friends were invaluable in this respect, but I firmly believed that it wouldn’t be possible to manage the culture shock of having a newly born baby in the house, so we didn’t do very much to prepare for the sleepless nights and just kept reminding ourselves that the importance was to be flexible and open to the changes.  This is very much like an Agile project – you can’t 100% know what’s required, so you accept that you won’t get it right in the first instance.  You have to plan that the project is a journey where you have to learn and refine things as you go along.

You can easily manage resources being delivered “to site” before you need them, although having stocks of things that are too large seems to be a bit of a mistake.  I never thought that she’d have gone from newborn sizes to 0-3 months and from size one nappies to size two in 14 days, but she did!  I recently went to watch cars being manufactured at Jaguar/LandRover and I wholeheartedly believe that the “just in time” approach which is being applied to vehicle manufacturing there would work equally well with a baby.  Luckily, they don’t have to change the wheels every two weeks because the hubs have grown!

I learned a massive lesson about the importance of being patient.  I mean, I thought that I was patient, but I realized quickly that what I thought was patience, was just a thin veneer of patience over the top of a core of pure selfishness.  It’s not the same as with a partner, where you can both take it in turns to be selfish – you have to really pull together as a team.  If you don’t do that, and act in a selfless manner then the baby will suffer and that’s not good.  Putting the needs of others above yourself is really difficult to do, but it helps that the baby is a vested interest.  The closest thing to the experience was being a member of a mountain rescue team, in the way that it was charitable, you often got woken up in the middle of the night by a wailing noise (pager) and you knew that the reason for having to get up was usually more important than your sleep.

I also learned the true value of communication difficulty.  Without the ability to communicate properly, the baby will just cry to signal that there’s something wrong.  It’s like having a car dashboard with no gauges, speedometer, rev counter but only one warning light that signals a problem, but has no symbol.  You have to work out what’s wrong yourself, and this makes things very complicated at the beginning, when you can find yourself muttering “come on, help me out here” to the screaming child.

This makes the baby very much like user politics.  Users will often complain/take issue about one thing, when they really have an entirely different issue at heart.  Luckily, the baby is only motivated by food, toilet, hugs and sleep at the moment, so everything else that might be wrong seems to fit within those headings.  I look forward to being able to develop a process for looking after babies.

So, can you project manage a baby?  Once you accept that control is an illusion, you can happily say “yes”.